The life, when we talk about this point, we will think about all particular that be part of life, and also that influence it, such as: humans being, animals, fruits, trees, and so on, but we never think how the particular of life make interaction, relation, and connection one each other, how the human being needs the tree that has the oxygen, and contrary how the tree needs human being who has carbon, everything needs the other, it is the point that will be topic as proof that life will be easy by relationship or friendship special for human being.
The first before friendship, let’s we think how to belief the life, when we just alone in this world without anything around us! Of course we will loneliness, we can take example from the story our first prophet Adam when he was in the heaven, he felt so confuse, why he created lonely! But after Eva created By Allah, his life different than before, perhaps Adam does not feel lonely again, so it is the proof that everything needs the other.
Friendship is the relation or interaction between one person and the other person, there are some old man said in the small market while drink the coffee “who have many friends, his face will be baby” after that they laugh together. it’s mean that the persons who have many friends, they will be baby, we did know baby, everyone loves baby, and also when baby want to something, for example: baby want to a toys, directly mother will buy toys for her baby, when baby cries, mother will make baby happy, smile, and stop from crying, same with someone who has many friends, when he feels lonely, his friends will accompany him. When he fall to the difficult thing, he will easy to consult his problem, how to solve it, there are many positive thing that we will get from friendship.
Our life will be peaceful by friendship, because there are many people love us, we can sign someone who has not wealth, but he always in happiness, why he always in happiness? The answer is because he has many friends who can entertain him to be happy, so that although his friends come from poor man, happiness and peaceful will come automatically, we always gathering with them, we sure that, although we do not eat, we will feel full, because of that gathering, as we have heard what did Slank (Grub band) say in his song “Makan ga’ Makan asal Ngumpul” that sentence is true, we will forget on our self, whether we sick, hungry we will forget it all, “how can be?” the answer perhaps it is the magic from friendship.
By friendship we can share about everything, such as: how the information around us, how the information of our lesson in the class, and how to be able to answer the question in our class (for students), so it will help in areas of knowledge, and from this statement we can say the friendship will make us be clever.
Our prophet Muhammad SAW, ever said in his prophetic tradition, “If you want to enlarge your wealth, please connect your relationship or friendship.” From this statement Allah will enlarge our wealth, if we always make relationship to the other, we can realize that when we got many relations, we‘ll be easy to get something that become our necessary, but carefully in choice a friend because he will guide us to the valley that have many peaceful and abundance lesson for us.
Rifqi Rahman, Class I Intensif. One of member PEC from Lenteng